BUSAYO A.

Wherever you are: happy, alone. in-between relationships. love demands something of

And to think a summer of boredom could do that, could possibly change the trajectory of how my mind works, and how I deal with life,

My first few years in Ondo town, I used the forest that stretched out before my school as a metaphor for the dense aloneness that I felt

I just don’t feel like I’m someone that could ever be okay with being average.

#FirstPost It is more than two months into 2024, and this is the very first blog post. This is very, very unusual for me. And I explain why.

Christmas came - a quiet, harmattan-essenced day and it felt so much like a normal day. Like any other Saturday but in a lovely way

 The thing is, hard years are difficult to learn from while you still live in them. It takes going back sometimes, to realize what you reall

#OctoberReset SO… this is the blog post I promised you back in September. Aren’t you happy to hear from me? Well, I am to be writing to...

So many things that I didn’t believe I could do, I did without breaking too much of a sweat or without so much anxiety.

Being human, is such an interesting experience, and viewing it from this angle has shown me many things that I am still trying to process

I hope I am coming here a lot better. With a clearer mind, a fresher perspective. And something nice to share with you.

Some birthday things. The Blog-anniversary 2.0. And a SPECIAL SURPRISE

Because oddly, the world always stays beautiful, it always remains bright and hopeful for you. And I always want to remember that

It made me realize that there are so many angles to the idea of what home could be – from home as a place, to home as the people you love

I’ve noticed that it is a quality of love that gets glossed over very easily about love... But there truly isn’t anything braver than love

I think it's because we saw that the other person could know our deepest fears, and still think of us as worthy of that love. It changes us

Because we sit at the precipice of new beginnings, I cannot help but share some of the things that can carry us gently into the New Year.

I have matured a lot in this year, but where I am now, I did not get here by accident. Or by “magic” It was through a lot of deliberate work

This year, I touched a bit on how music shapes my creativity. Well, this will be the post where I discuss that even further...

And I remember that Sunday in particular; it was just like any other restful Sunday. I woke up, with the sun breaking past the cold of 6 am