BUSAYO A.

At the start of this year, I was coming out of 2024 in a state that I can only described as emotionally and spiritually exhausted. My goal for 2025 was to not have a specific goal.

How did I go from spending the early part of this year in a soft cloud of doing barely anything, to the current end-of-year rush?

But really, there is something quite noble about how sacrificial love can be. How it will chase you to infinity, just to make sure you are okay. To convince you that you are worth fighting for.

Asking myself this question - what is important? -  has always happened when I'm at a crossroads in life

Four years since the rainy day in June when I decided to stop putting things off, and to put out my first piece and put my heart out there!

I have found it hard to think up new ideas that fit into what this blog used to be about.

Wherever you are: happy, alone. in-between relationships. love demands something of

I will be writing about what I am not going to be doing, in the new year that is.

With every month that went by, I made some small incremental change that got me closer to where I wanted to be.

My first few years in Ondo town, I used the forest that stretched out before my school as a metaphor for the dense aloneness that I felt

It is still such a head-spinning thing, that I have the skills and knowledge to actually save someone’s life. What a humbling privilege

I just don’t feel like I’m someone that could ever be okay with being average.

#FirstPost It is more than two months into 2024, and this is the very first blog post. This is very, very unusual for me. And I explain why.

Christmas came - a quiet, harmattan-essenced day and it felt so much like a normal day. Like any other Saturday but in a lovely way

 The thing is, hard years are difficult to learn from while you still live in them. It takes going back sometimes, to realize what you reall

#OctoberReset SO… this is the blog post I promised you back in September. Aren’t you happy to hear from me? Well, I am to be writing to...

So many things that I didn’t believe I could do, I did without breaking too much of a sweat or without so much anxiety.

Being human, is such an interesting experience, and viewing it from this angle has shown me many things that I am still trying to process

I hope I am coming here a lot better. With a clearer mind, a fresher perspective. And something nice to share with you.

Some birthday things. The Blog-anniversary 2.0. And a SPECIAL SURPRISE