BUSAYO A.

I have found it hard to think up new ideas that fit into what this blog used to be about.

Wherever you are: happy, alone. in-between relationships. love demands something of

I will be writing about what I am not going to be doing, in the new year that is.

With every month that went by, I made some small incremental change that got me closer to where I wanted to be.

There's no party like a Yoruba party. And I admire how people are able to come together to celebrate both small and big wins

It is still such a head-spinning thing, that I have the skills and knowledge to actually save someone’s life. What a humbling privilege

My story ends with an almost happy ending. Almost. Because I am deeply fascinated by endings that are open-ended. That are not real endings.

I just don’t feel like I’m someone that could ever be okay with being average.

#FirstPost It is more than two months into 2024, and this is the very first blog post. This is very, very unusual for me. And I explain why.

Christmas came - a quiet, harmattan-essenced day and it felt so much like a normal day. Like any other Saturday but in a lovely way

 The thing is, hard years are difficult to learn from while you still live in them. It takes going back sometimes, to realize what you reall

#OctoberReset SO… this is the blog post I promised you back in September. Aren’t you happy to hear from me? Well, I am to be writing to...

Being human, is such an interesting experience, and viewing it from this angle has shown me many things that I am still trying to process

I hope I am coming here a lot better. With a clearer mind, a fresher perspective. And something nice to share with you.

Some birthday things. The Blog-anniversary 2.0. And a SPECIAL SURPRISE

It made me realize that there are so many angles to the idea of what home could be – from home as a place, to home as the people you love

I’ve noticed that it is a quality of love that gets glossed over very easily about love... But there truly isn’t anything braver than love

I think it's because we saw that the other person could know our deepest fears, and still think of us as worthy of that love. It changes us

Because we sit at the precipice of new beginnings, I cannot help but share some of the things that can carry us gently into the New Year.

I have matured a lot in this year, but where I am now, I did not get here by accident. Or by “magic” It was through a lot of deliberate work